Have A Nice Day ... why are you waiting?

Yesterday I was driving toward my home in Coronado, Costa Rica after dropping my son at his Spanish tutor's home.  The sight before me was truly amazing!

Directly in front of me was a HUGE and vivid rainbow that appeared to end at the beautiful Coronado church with the lush green mountain as a backdrop.

Inglesia San Isidro de Labrador - Vasquez de Coronado, Costa Rica
Inglesia San Isidro de Labrador
Vasquez de Coronado, San Jose, Costa Rica

I didn't have a camera but the picture will remain in my mind and my seeing this incredible natural phenomenon in the setting of my new home does not escape me as it took a certain mindset to get me to Costa Rica in the first place.

With this thought, I would like to share the following message that was just sent to me by a good friend from my former home near Chicago:


READ THIS VERY SLOWLY.... IT'S PRETTY PROFOUND.

Too many people put off something that brings them joy just because they haven't thought about it, don't have it on their schedule, didn't know it was coming or are too rigid to depart from their routine.

I got to thinking one day about all those women on the Titanic who passed up dessert at dinner that fateful night in an effort to cut back. From then on, I've tried to be a little more flexible.

How many women out there will eat at home because their husband didn't suggest going out to dinner until after something had been thawed? Does the word 'refrigeration' mean nothing to you?

How often have your kids dropped in to talk and sat in silence while you watched 'Jeopardy' on television?

I cannot count the times I called my sister and said, 'How about going to lunch in a half hour?' She would gas up and stammer, 'I can't. I have clothes on the line. My hair is dirty. I wish I had known yesterday, I had a late breakfast, It looks like rain.' And my personal favorite: 'It's Monday.' She died a few years ago. We never did have lunch together.

Because Americans cram so much into their lives, we tend to schedule our headaches. We live on a sparse diet of promises we make to ourselves when all the conditions are perfect!

We'll go back and visit the grandparents when we get Steve toilet-trained. We'll entertain when we replace the living-room carpet... We'll go on a second honeymoon when we get two more kids out of college.

Life has a way of accelerating as we get older. The days get shorter, and the list of promises to ourselves gets longer. One morning, we awaken, and all we have to show for our lives is a litany of 'I'm going to,' 'I plan on,' and 'Someday, when things are settled down a bit.'

When anyone calls my 'seize the moment' friend, she is open to adventure and available for trips. She keeps an open mind on new ideas. Her enthusiasm for life is contagious. You talk with her for five minutes, and you're ready to trade your bad feet for a pair of Roller blades and skip an elevator for a bungee cord.

My lips have not touched ice cream in 10 years. I love ice cream. It's just that I might as well apply it directly to my stomach with a spatula and eliminate the digestive process The other day, I stopped the car and bought a triple-Decker. If my car had hit an iceberg on the way home, I would have died happy.

Now...go on and have a nice day. Do something you WANT to......not something on your SHOULD DO list. If you were going to die soon and had only one phone call you could make, who would you call and what would you say? And why are you waiting?

Make sure you read this to the end; you will understand why I shared this with you.

Have you ever watched kids playing on a merry go round or listened to the rain lapping on the ground? Ever followed a butter fly's erratic flight or gazed at the sun into the fading night? Do you run through each day on the fly? When you ask ' How are you?' Do you hear the reply?

When the day is done, do you lie in your bed with the next hundred chores running through your head? Ever told your child, 'We'll do it tomorrow.' And in your haste, not see his sorrow? Ever lost touch? Let a good friendship die? Just call to say 'Hi?

When you worry and hurry through your day, it is like an unopened gift....Thrown away..... Life is not a race Take it slower. Hear the music before the song is over.

'Life may not be the party we hoped for... but while we are here we might as well dance.


¡Pura Vida y Arco Iris!

 

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  • 12/13/2008 6:38 PM Erika wrote:
    Hey there Bill....

    Thanks for sharing this message along with your beautiful depiction of the scenery in Coranado. I specifically like the statement " Do something you WANT to......not something on your SHOULD DO list." And then my next favorite,"...but while we are here we might as well dance."

    Thanks again.....
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    1. 12/13/2008 7:37 PM Bill Clanton wrote:
      Erika,

      I am so glad you found something special in the message!

      A great accompaniment to this post is the following video/song:  " I'm Yours " by Jason Mraz

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      1. 6/4/2009 2:49 PM lou wrote:
        I love it, what a great beat, makes you want to pat your feet.
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  • 1/18/2009 4:31 PM surfer grl wrote:
    Truly inspirational! I fell in love with CR (and in particular the Osa Pen) 8 years ago. I've travelled the world and never found a place where I feel like I intrinsically belong like I do when Im visiting CR. Promises of moving there someday... Very recently lost my mom, and a bad economy means Im weeks away from loosing my job. Looking forward to my visit to CR end of Feb.....Thanks for this posting - reminds me to keep my promise alive and seize the day!
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    1. 1/18/2009 6:29 PM Bill Clanton wrote:
      Surfer Girl,

      Your note is as or more moving than the original post. I truly know how you feel about Costa Rica.

      Enjoy your return trip in February!


      P.S.: My condolences on mom.
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    2. 1/20/2009 4:36 PM Michael Avant wrote:
      Hey I know the feeling. Started in the Osa but I belong up north in the blue zone. I hope to be there soon Pura vida Miguel
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    3. 1/20/2009 4:50 PM Miguel wrote:
      My trips there have been alot more than inspirational many spirtal happenings the kind that give you the chicken skin!! And the olas are good too. Pura Vida Miguel
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